Pros and Cons of Dating during Divorce

Dating during a divorce can be a difficult decision to make, as it can have both positive and negative consequences. In Illinois, dating during a divorce is not illegal, but it can impact several aspects of the divorce process. In this blog post, we will explore the pros and cons of dating during divorce proceedings in Illinois.

Pros of Dating During Divorce

1.    Emotional Support: Going through a divorce can be a difficult and emotional time, and dating can provide emotional support during this challenging period. Having someone to talk to and share your feelings with can be beneficial for your mental health.

2.    Moving On: Dating can also help you move on from your previous relationship and start to envision a new life for yourself. It can provide a sense of closure and help you feel more positive about the future.

3.    Enjoyment: Dating can be enjoyable and provide a sense of fun and excitement during a difficult time. It can help you remember that there is still joy and happiness to be found in life.

Cons of Dating During Divorce

1.    Impact on Children: Dating during a divorce can have a significant impact on children, particularly if they are not yet ready to see a new person in their parent's life. It can be confusing and upsetting for children, and may cause them to feel neglected or abandoned.

2.    Impact on Property Division: Dating during a divorce can also impact the division of marital property. If you begin a new relationship during the divorce process, your spouse may argue that you have wasted marital assets on your new partner or that you have spent time and resources on a new relationship rather than on the divorce process.

3.    Impact on Spousal Support: Dating during a divorce can also impact spousal support. If you begin a new relationship during the divorce process, your spouse may argue that you no longer need spousal support, as you have a new partner who can provide for you.

4.    Impact on Child Custody: Dating during a divorce can also impact child custody. If you begin a new relationship during the divorce process, your spouse may argue that your new relationship is not in the best interests of the children and may impact your ability to provide a stable and supportive environment for them.

5.    Delay of Divorce: Dating during a divorce can also delay the divorce process. If your spouse believes that your new relationship is a factor in the divorce, they may be less willing to negotiate or agree to a settlement, which can prolong the process.

In conclusion, dating during a divorce can have both positive and negative consequences. While it can provide emotional support and a sense of moving on, it can also impact the division of marital property, spousal support, child custody, and the overall divorce process. If you are considering dating during a divorce, it is important to consult with an experienced family law attorney who can help you navigate the legal and emotional challenges of the divorce process. An attorney can provide guidance on the impact of dating on your divorce and help you make the best decisions for your unique situation.